~Lessons Learned~

Are you aware of your surroundings?   Are you noticing your   gifts?   Are you seeing the beauty and wonderment that surrounds you?    Or do you just walk right past.   Stop and take time to count each and every little thing in your life, all the miracles all the prayers that have been answered, even if you didn’t like the answer.   The universe is providing to you, are you keeping your mind open and clear from clutter of negative thoughts?   Start today to sweep away your old thought system if isn’t working for you and start anew.   Look at how with a positive mindset, positive things happen in your life.   If you are thinking with a positive mind, even things that at one time you thought to be a negative will be looked at in a new light.   You will grow and you will see life change in a better way around you.   You will yearn to continue to focus on the positive and push aside the negative.   You will surround yourself with positive people, things and thoughts, therefore your outloo

I'm starting a new manifestation today and thought I would share the process with all of you.  First:  Take time to decide exactly what you want to manifest. Be sure to to think this through figuring out exactly what you want.  You can also include a time frame or just allow, the choice is yours. REMINDER:  This can be ANYTHING from inner strength to a new car or a career.  Tomorrow we will verbalize our manifestation.  Second step:  By now I hope you know exactly what you want.  It is very helpful to write it down.  My manifestation:  In the next two months I will be providing readings to friends and people I currently haven't met.  I will continue to do more and more readings for more and more people!!!!!!! All doubts need to be removed from your mind and total belief needs to engulf your thoughts around your manifestation.  Visualize yourself enjoying, living and loving your manifestation.  Keep your eyes and hearts open as your manifestation is taking form as we s

It's only three weeks into the new year and already some of you are fighting the "inevitable" changes that are associated with this upcoming year.  Change can be a huge challenge for many.  I know it has caused me many issues in my life, but when I look back on it,it's usually because I fought it, eventually settling in and the change became the norm.  Change happens for a reason, maybe you need an attitude adjustment, maybe you have learned a lesson and it is time to move on, maybe you haven't learned a lesson and new set of eyes have been provided to you by the change.  Whatever the reason, recognize the change and see the positives associated with it.  Some feel lost and confused, almost as they don't fit in with all the changes happening around them.  This is the time to allow, allow life to happen, don't be afraid, take a deep breath, life has kept you a part of the game this long and will continue to do so.  Life isn't always about the biggest an

What kind of friend are you?  I'm pretty bias and believe I have surrounded myself with "the best friends" ever.  What is a best friend to me? Well it's that person you share your heart with.  The one you laugh with, the one you cry with.  A person that remains important in your heart no matter how often you see or talk to them.  A person who supports you and never judges your decisions.  A friend accepts others in your lives, just because they are important to you.  A friend will drop everything, to do nothing but lend an ear even in the middle of the night.  A friends love is unconditional.  A friend gets excited when you succeed. A friend loves your strengths AND your weaknesses.  A friend appreciates you.  A friend learns from you as well as teaches you!  A FRIEND LOVES YOU FOREVER AND ALWAYS! A true friend would never belittle you, never say anything behind your back that they wouldn't say to your face.  Never would they give you an ultimatum.  Never woul

What a great topic and one regrettably I know first hand.  I have been judged and OH SO many times I have been the judge and the jury!!!  Sound familiar?  Have you ever been out somewhere and a complete stranger passes by, in your mind before they have even passed you, you have "judged" them on nothing more than appearance.  They need to lose weight, they need to dress better, or why is she with him, etc.  Do you ever stop and ask yourself why?  Well for me, it's out of insecurity, jealousy and fear.  In society, we think we have to be the best and in order to be the best that means I have to be better than you and you and you.  However, is what makes us the best is to be "our" best.  The best you, you can be.  When you judge someone, it is a great opportunity to stop and see what it is in us that we fear.  When I judge it makes me feel superior (but only in my mind).  I have been misjudged so many times (karma?-perhaps) an opportunity for me to learn a less

Once again I am humbled and touched by a young man.  A young man that currently struggling to make his life and himself better.  I applaud him.  He has opened himself up, sharing his fears and desires with me, searching for help.  I spent the evening providing input and giving him homework.  He reminds me how desperate we can get at times.  How lonely life can become when we allow it, but how by just reaching out to someone, your thought process can change and immediately the world looks brighter.  I am very blessed that there are those that reach out and trust me and I pray that I provide them with support and insight. We discussed being "lonely".  There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely.  We have all felt it.  It is such a disconnect, feeling as though you don't belong anywhere.  That no one gets you or really wants to get you.  This feeling can lead to such depression and sadness.  If you find yourself in this state of mind, find the courage t

Can you feel it?  2012 will be filled with change.  From huge shifts to many subtle changes.  These changes for most will be felt inside, however it is a great year to keep your positive thoughts and manifestation going as what you desire at the beginning of this year, as long as handled with love will blossom and grow into exactly what you want.  You will begin to see small changes within, positive growth that "will just happen".  You may find yourself looking at certain situations differently (ex. if you once looked at something as a negative, you may start to see the other side of it).  It is a great time to completely forgive yourself for your "mistakes" in order for you to be completely open to all that is coming your way.  You may find yourself loving even more.  Realizing that your heart is opening more than you thought and engulfing those around you at an even deeper level, including yourself.  You will find you are done running, ready, willing, and able

Why is it that I think and see you as far more worthy than you see yourself?  This is a question I have for many in my life, but currently it is for a very important young man.  Worthy is deserving.  And since you are a human being you are deserving of everything in life, regardless of who you are.  It is all about how we go about getting/receiving it.  The answer:  BELIEF.  Your worthiness does not come from the outside, it comes only from the inside.  When you are truly listening to your soul and not your ego, you will be in alignment with what is right and life will grant you all you desire.  When you use your ego, life will bring you lessons.  One big issue I see with so many is the need/want to "please" others.  The need becomes so intense, they lose sight of pleasing their soul.  This will make you divert so far from your path of goodness, it will make you wonder if you can get back, usually leading you into depression.  It can also eventually cloud your mind and ju

That feeling that you get that starts in your stomach and moves to your chest.  The one where you wish time would stand still for just a minute longer and allow.  The one where you feel as though there is nothing in the world that can get you down.  It's a feeling I get every time I take a minute and live in the "now".  When I stop and clear all the "hustle" from the world out of my head and look around at all I have been blessed with-for it is true HAPPINESS. Happiness doesn't come from money, it comes from within.  Take a minute right now, clear your mind and think about what makes you happy.  What makes you smile, what feels your chest with that feeling?  If you are unable to feel it, then move yourself and thoughts to a place of happiness.  Surround yourself with people that support and love you.  Some of my happiest times comes from watching my friends/family grow.  Their happiness is contagious----is yours?

A great question?  A beautiful young lady (no not Lonee---lol) told me that anger currently drives her.  The more we discussed it the more we found that it was a defense mechanism.  The anger allowed her (in her words) to avoid sadness.  Oh, how this broke my heart.  Whether it is anger, fear, guilt (or any negative) feeling that keeps you going everyday, you are ultimately running from dealing with an issue(s).  One thing I know, you can run but you can't hide.  Eventually, you will have to face whatever it is you don't like or are afraid of....................I read a quote today:  Love is what we are born with.  Fear is what we learn.  Have the courage to walk through the fear, face it head on.  For fear is something that we create in our minds.  Don't waste a second longer living in anger, fear, sadness, etc.  Make today the day you step through it.  Happiness is on the other side.  I promise. 

12- Keep your thoughts positive about the future, as what you are thinking influences your future.