YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL
I read somewhere that a goal without a plan is just a wish. Great saying but how do you make your wishes come true? It's as easy as this.......live them as though they are unfolding and happening right now. Again change your thought process from when this happens to I'm preparing for this to happen. Do you want a new house, new car, a loving spouse, a successful surgery, a great job, loving family, happiness and peace in your life? You and only you allow the carrot of your wants to dangle in front of you always chasing it but never catching it.
If you want a new house, car and loving spouse, appreciate where you are right now and begin to see yourself with all of it. Picture yourself decorating your new house, driving your new car and spending time with your spouse. Enjoy it, feel, smell it, allow the belief that it can be yours to fill your heart with joy as you know it is coming. Great advice and something that most of us can do for a few minutes and then we allow the negative chatter back into our heads. We start to listen to others disappointments and setbacks from having exactly what we want and that begins to be our new belief.
Changing your mind is easy and difficult because it requires commitment. It requires your goal to be important enough to you that you work (in your mind) on getting what you want. Remember you have to play an active role in your life. You must move forward in your goal. Let's take a look at the above example, you live with your parents, you don't have enough in the bank for a new car and you definitely don't have enough in the bank to purchase a ring.This can seem so overwhelming so what do you do? Buy something for your new home, open a new account where you put money into no matter the amount monthly, tell your girlfriend/boyfriend you are working towards a future with them, include them in your thoughts. Talk about when we marry this is what we will do, etc. Set yourself a deadline to re-evaluate yourself and your progress. If you don't begin to take the steps in your mind you will never get where you want to go. Do not knee jerk, want a car because you see a pretty one on TV and go out and buy one........now you just gave yourself another negative vibration to deal with and get through. NEVER allow another person's opinion to hinder what you want. If someone else isn't on board with your goal, DO NOT discuss it with them until you are strong enough in your conviction that their opinion can't penetrate your mind. Because you and only you knows what is best for you.
The key is to appreciate where you are, know what you want and move towards that goal in your mind. If you know what you want go for it, it will be yours. Set your intention, focus on the goal and move forward in your mind and actions everyday knowing that it is coming to you. You create your life as long as you are an active participant in the way it unfolds.
Listen to your heart and follow it!!!
If you want a new house, car and loving spouse, appreciate where you are right now and begin to see yourself with all of it. Picture yourself decorating your new house, driving your new car and spending time with your spouse. Enjoy it, feel, smell it, allow the belief that it can be yours to fill your heart with joy as you know it is coming. Great advice and something that most of us can do for a few minutes and then we allow the negative chatter back into our heads. We start to listen to others disappointments and setbacks from having exactly what we want and that begins to be our new belief.
Changing your mind is easy and difficult because it requires commitment. It requires your goal to be important enough to you that you work (in your mind) on getting what you want. Remember you have to play an active role in your life. You must move forward in your goal. Let's take a look at the above example, you live with your parents, you don't have enough in the bank for a new car and you definitely don't have enough in the bank to purchase a ring.This can seem so overwhelming so what do you do? Buy something for your new home, open a new account where you put money into no matter the amount monthly, tell your girlfriend/boyfriend you are working towards a future with them, include them in your thoughts. Talk about when we marry this is what we will do, etc. Set yourself a deadline to re-evaluate yourself and your progress. If you don't begin to take the steps in your mind you will never get where you want to go. Do not knee jerk, want a car because you see a pretty one on TV and go out and buy one........now you just gave yourself another negative vibration to deal with and get through. NEVER allow another person's opinion to hinder what you want. If someone else isn't on board with your goal, DO NOT discuss it with them until you are strong enough in your conviction that their opinion can't penetrate your mind. Because you and only you knows what is best for you.
The key is to appreciate where you are, know what you want and move towards that goal in your mind. If you know what you want go for it, it will be yours. Set your intention, focus on the goal and move forward in your mind and actions everyday knowing that it is coming to you. You create your life as long as you are an active participant in the way it unfolds.
Listen to your heart and follow it!!!
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