LET IT BE!!!

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I've learned a lot this weekend!! The light bulb finally went on in my head and it is so freeing.  I have a tendency to dwell on things I don't understand. For me, knowing why people do the things they do seems to make life easier.  HOWEVER, I also have a tendency to assume why people do as they do and this at times makes my blood boil. 

 I don't understand how people can ignore, misuse or treat another poorly, yet still stay in your life and profess their interest.  WAIT!! Strike that first part - I don't understand and insert I didn't understand.  Now I get it!! You see, when I am kind, giving and respectful of you and give you my time and attention, naturally I expect the same from you.  Key word to my misunderstanding.......EXPECT.

 I know now and embrace the fact that while I may be giving of my time or self, others may not give back in the same way.  They may use me or ignore me, but their behavior has nothing to do with me!!  We each have to live with ourselves and our choices and consequences.  I believe in Karma and realize the more I give and love from my heart with ABSOLUTELY no strings attached the same will come back to me.  There will always be those fair weather friends, those that come into your life when they need a hand, a pick me up, or someone to be there for them and then there will be the lifers (thank God for my lifers).  The fair weather friends will come and go and I will embrace each one with kindness. Expecting nothing in return.  Therefore I will always be at peace with myself!!!  

 Find peace within yourself, always give kindly and freely, you may never know when you need that Karma!!



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