~Lessons Learned~

Have you ever wondered if you have made too many poor choices in life to ever get it back on track?  Have you ever stopped looked at your life and said "Holy hell, when did it all fall apart, is it possible to get myself out of this place?  Well, if you have you have probably felt confused, scared, alone and thought, where do i begin?  So many times, life or even one situation can seem so overwhelming that the thought of fixing it, seems to big of a feat for one person and what happens?  We give up AGAIN!! The coolest part of fixing "you", really isn't that hard.  Even though at times, you think to yourself will I ever get back where I knew what I was doing and I felt like I knew what the next step was.   One of the biggest reason change seems so hard is because of trust.  If you want to learn from the past, learn from your mistakes and move forward--TRUST yourself that you can!!!   I can remember the time I was hurt to the core by a loved one.  I, too, wonde

Keeping positive thoughts during a difficult situation can sometimes seem impossible, but it is doable!!!  This I guarantee!!!  It's all choice!!! One of the best ways to remain positive is to take the time to look for the positives in every situation (I promise they are there).  Fear is what keeps in the negative mindset and when we focus our thoughts and attention on what we don't want that is exactly what we attract in your lives!! When we change the negative to positive we attract more goodness. I've said before you live in the past if you are experiencing fear, begin to live in the present moment. Because right now, you can breathe and think of everything that makes you happy and fulfilled, be grateful for what you have right now!!  Our thoughts are so powerful, I promise you if you listen to your heart and make choices that feel right to your heart NOT your ego, miracles happen, dreams are fulfilled!!!  I've experienced this over and over and know it to be

       THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU,   THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU FOR THE TEXTS, EMAILS AND COMMENTS SENT ABOUT THE TOPICS I BLOG ABOUT.   I get my inspiration and ideas from so many of you, either by suggesting a topic, struggling with something and asking for a different opinion. Sometimes, I notice how many people are dealing with or going through the same emotional issues and I feel compelled to blog.  At times, some of the blogs are basically my coping strategies for what continues to swirl in my head. But it is a great feeling to have someone reach out and tell me thanks or one of my favorites, when they tell me they know I was writing about them!!   So please keep the ideas and suggestions coming and who knows you may be exactly who I'm writing about!!!!!  

In other words, what controls your life?  If the Past is in the driver's seat, you will find yourself using a lot of negative words and having a burden of negative thoughts.  How many times do you allow the past to replay in your head?  How many times do you give up on something or someone just because you figure it didn't work out before, so it won't work out this time.  How often have you allowed yourself to judge someone else because of past experiences.  How long have you told yourself you'll never get where you want to be because of your past screw ups?  How often do you allow your mind to beat you up, ultimately allowing you to believe you don't deserve anything better, for the past mistakes you've made? ALLOWING THE PAST TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE WILL ALMOST ALWAYS LEAD TO THE PAST REPEATING ITSELF!!!     If People  drive, you most definitely will find yourself confused.  For their experiences (while can be great lessons that you don't actua